My Strategy of unveiling some of these wonderful secrets

This book is the first in a series of writings to make life easier. We begin with this one because of what relationships mean to our lives, they are at the very foundation of all situations, deals, and projects; and they can cause grave emotional difficulty, in fact…

At the root of all suffering is a relationship with someone somewhere. Some relationship is at the very heart of destiny shaping programming in each of us.

We will publish more on Humans and their inneractions with others, and how to make their life easier in this journey here on planet earth. To begin understanding ourselves and life in general we must learn about the most intense relationship anyone can ever encounter on planet earth today – that of the marriage relationship. It does not matter if this is an actual certificated marriage or just a common law marriage, which is one that is created by living together. This thingⁱⁱ that happens between a man and a woman is at the very heart of all societies world-wide; and this relationship comes often at a high expense to one’s mental and emotional constitution. We can look at history and often see how whole empires fell apart when this relationship mini unit begins to fall apart, and becomes victim to divorces, separations, promiscuity, affairs, and the like…

These passionate and sometimes horrible inneractions between two people can and do cause monumental trauma and bring about patterns of behaviour directed by assumptions and new formed beliefs; which are actually programming we received during the formative years from 0 to 6 and more from 7 to 12ⁱⁱⁱ; we end up in patterns where we hurt ourselves through assumptions and believes that do not serve us.

In the process of growing up in a world of pattern programming caused by generations of hand-me down thoughts and beliefs, we end up living in a room (figuratively in the room of our mind) that we did not create. One may refer to the hand-me down beliefs as writings on the walls of this our very intimate room we live in, in our mind – our permanent mental address, some refer to it as the cards you have been dealt for your game of life. Others may refer to these writings on the walls of OUR room as comedies put there by others and others’ experiences and programming which now becomes our own programming.

Leland presented this ‘Contourology’ work, years ago, in his class by saying that many thousands of years ago some wise Chinese people sat around observing that many behaviour patterns could be observed from individuals who seem to have a similar body structure as other with similar behaviour patterns; and so the study of Contourology was born. The author herein is not really certain of this Chinese heritage, but the master teacher (Leland Val Van De Wall) who taught him the basics of Contourology described it that way. Anyway, the study works and accomplishes the aim of making it easier to relate with people from all walks of life and thus the origin of this information hold little importance to the author.

What is a fact is that a person’s tendencies (the way he/she acts), which are inherited from the parents and the grand parents etc., and are passed on to children and the children’s children, help to shape the contours of every human being, no matter the culture. These writings lays out for the reader how to identify the personality tendancies, the physical needs, one’s financial lookout and eating habits, the health outcomes one is most likely to attract and the most ideal and least ideal marriage partner one could choose.

When we have more clarity about these six very important characteristics in another, and use this information to adapt our approach to this other individual, we can have most a more successful relationship with anyone. We can read the tendencies of others before we ever being a conversation and THIS IS A GOLDEN KEY (if you will) TO OPENING THE DOOR TO BENEFICIAL AND PROFITABLE INNERACTIONS WITH ANOTHER.